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Infertility puts considerable stress on even the most stable of partnerships.

Though the ideas around becoming a parent may not always be in the forefront, neither are they discarded. Rather, we put them on the back burner, trying to prevent unplanned pregnancies in our 20’s, concentrating on other important and foundational tasks of life.

So when we are ready and unable to conceive, the impact is jarring to our psyche.

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I have always been fascinated by the workings of the human mind and have felt drawn to helping people who find themselves navigating life’s stressors. I know people possess tremendous strength and resiliency; however, in the midst of life’s challenges we may not feel capable to tackle these difficulties head-on. In my work, where I specialize in infertility and couples counselling, I help people to recognize and build on their strengths, with the aim of addressing and working through their current as well as past issues. 

Women in particular have amazing strength. On the flip side, we women can question our own strength and second guess our choices. This issue often comes from things we are taught / told by others (societal constructs). We then internalize those voices so we don’t need others to keep telling us – we do it for ourselves. These beliefs are not always helpful for a woman who is experiencing hardships, traumas and life’s difficulties which are inevitable. In terms of infertility, many women report persistent feelings of shame which adds to the challenge of navigating this specific journey. 

Since the focus of fertility treatments is usually on the woman, it often puts the male partner in a supportive role. This can contribute to them not processing their own experiences of sadness and the loss and grief that are attached to the infertility experience. 

In my practice, I see many same-sex couples whose path to creating their families requires accessing fertility assistance. Although LGBTQ+ people are not necessarily dealing with infertility issues, they nonetheless have to navigate emotional, legal and financial challenges with information and respectful attention. 

Another area I specialize in is third party reproduction – donor sperm, donor eggs, donor embryo and gestational surrogacy. 

Couples

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Women

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Men

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LGBTQ+

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*In addition to fertility, I regularly support clients experiencing other life transitions, depression and anxiety.

Exploring my options to become a single Mom by choice was scary and overwhelming. Processing my expectations of what I thought my family would look like and navigating the fertility process was really challenging. Working with Chandra early on in my journey helped me find moments of calm. Her wealth of knowledge and insightful questions were invaluable to me in connecting to what really felt right for me to make empowered decisions. This journey has brought me to peacefully accepting and planning for a future without children. If you had asked me a couple of years ago this would have been devastating, but now I look forward with peace and excitement. Chandra played a pivotal role in my fertility journey, and I am grateful to have had the opportunity to work with her.

I cannot thank Chandra enough for her help as my husband and I navigated the physical and emotional challenges of fertility treatment. She was recommended by one of the experienced nurses at PCRM when the nurse realized how much I was struggling with the inevitable lows of IVF. The combination of Chandra's talents in counselling and her extensive knowledge of fertility treatments makes her, in my opinion, one of the best resources available. She creates a safe, supportive, non-judgmental environment for patients to discuss their goals, fears and frustrations. I truly believe that her support is one of the reasons we found the strength to continue with our fertility journey and eventually have our daughter.